Another Country: A Look Back (and a few awkward moments)

Okay, so I finally got around to watching "Another Country" (1984) and wow, there's a lot to unpack! I went in knowing basically nothing except it had something to do with schooling and espionage. Honestly, the whole 'stiff upper lip' British boarding school vibe is equal parts fascinating and kinda creepy, especially watching it through the lens of modern parenting. Rupert Everett as Guy Bennett is just captivating. He absolutely nails the rebellious, charming, yet deeply vulnerable character. The scenes where he's navigating the rigid hierarchy and trying to figure out his own identity were really powerful. I found the whole political awakening aspect of the story super interesting too, especially the contrast between his and Tommy Judd's (Colin Firth!) approaches to challenging the system. Speaking of Tommy, did anyone else cringe during that whole love scene between him and Guy?! I knew what I was getting into with the subject matter but it was still a bit of a surprise in a really early film (I'm not a prude, but it was jarring!). What really stuck with me was, the film isn't just about homosexuality, it's about conformity and the price of not fitting in. Bennett chose a path that, while potentially destructive, offered him a kind of freedom from the suffocating expectations of his class and country. I think it's a really thought-provoking film, especially for anyone interested in history or political themes. I'm not sure I'd recommend it to my kids quite yet, but definitely food for thought! Overall, its not perfect but the themes are really interesting, and it feels very real. I'd recommend it mostly based on the performance of Everett. I'd love to know everyone else's thoughts on it!